{"id":892,"date":"2019-10-22T10:55:52","date_gmt":"2019-10-22T08:55:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/?p=892"},"modified":"2020-04-06T20:46:24","modified_gmt":"2020-04-06T18:46:24","slug":"o-naturze-ego-cz-3-czyli-czy-musze-byc-szczesliwy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/?p=892","title":{"rendered":"O naturze ego (cz.3) czyli czy musz\u0119 by\u0107 szcz\u0119\u015bliwy?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Musz\u0119 by\u0107 szcz\u0119\u015bliwy<\/strong><br><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p>To pragnienie w przeciwie\u0144stwie do dw\u00f3ch pozosta\u0142ych (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/2019\/10\/04\/jaka-jest-natura-ego\/\">o naturze ego cz 1<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/2019\/10\/05\/o-naturze-ego-cz-2\/\">o naturze ego cz.2<\/a>)  wydaje si\u0119 \u0142atwiejsze do zaspokojenia.&nbsp;<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Przede wszystkim do osi\u0105gni\u0119cia celu nie potrzebujemy nikogo innego. Nauczeni do\u015bwiadczeniem i nasyceni rozwojowymi tre\u015bciami, w ko\u0144cu stajemy&nbsp; si\u0119 w kwestii szcz\u0119\u015bcia samowystarczalni. Zatracamy si\u0119 w pasjach, wzgl\u0119dnie w zmys\u0142owych przyjemno\u015bciach. Chocia\u017c lepiej w pasjach bo to jednak, jak wszyscy spece od rozwoju twierdz\u0105, da nam najbardziej trwa\u0142\u0105 satysfakcj\u0119.&nbsp;<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Albo mo\u017ce inaczej, nawet ju\u017c zostawmy te pasje. Przecie\u017c prawdziwie przebudzone osoby ostateczny spok\u00f3j osi\u0105gn\u0119\u0142y dopiero przez zjednoczenie z Bogiem, z Ja\u017ani\u0105. Oddam si\u0119 ca\u0142kowicie \u017cyciu duchowemu i wtedy sp\u0142ynie na mnie nirvana, kt\u00f3rej tak pragn\u0119.<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bo przecie\u017c o to w \u017cyciu chodzi, najwa\u017cniejsze \u017cebym to JA by\u0142 szcz\u0119\u015bliwy. Nie g\u0142oduj\u0105ce dziecko w Afryce ale w\u0142a\u015bnie JA.&nbsp;<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ale niestety i&nbsp;to pragnienie, jak ka\u017cde inne, jest w ostatecznym rachunku niezaspakajalne.&nbsp;<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">J<strong>ak nie da\u0107 si\u0119 obezw\u0142adni\u0107 d\u0105\u017ceniu do szcz\u0119\u015bcia?<\/strong><br><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sp\u00f3jrz na swoje \u017cycie z szerszej perspektywy. <\/strong>Odpowiedz na pytanie co by si\u0119 sta\u0142o gdyby ju\u017c nigdy nie dane Ci by\u0142o do\u015bwiadczy\u0107 szcz\u0119\u015bcia? Czy wtedy Twoje \u017cycie sta\u0142oby si\u0119 zupe\u0142nie bezwarto\u015bciowe i pozbawione celu?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>(&#8230;)<em>wsp\u00f3\u0142czesny cz\u0142owiek ma za co \u017cy\u0107, ale nie ma po co \u017cy\u0107 &#8211; ma \u015brodki, ale nie ma sensu.<\/em> <br><\/p><p>  &#8211; Victor Frankl <em>Cz\u0142owiek w poszukiwaniu sensu<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Zamiast wiecznie d\u0105\u017cy\u0107 do czego\u015b czego nie masz, zwr\u00f3\u0107 uwag\u0119 na to co ju\u017c masz<\/strong>. Mo\u017ce otaczaj\u0105ca Ci\u0119 rzeczywisto\u015b\u0107 wcale nie jest taka \u201cnieszcze\u015bliwa\u201d. Poza tym skoro wszystkie nasze pragnienia i tak spe\u0142zn\u0105 na panewce, rozs\u0105dniejszym wydaje si\u0119 goni\u0107 za tym co jest wzgl\u0119dnie blisko. Przynajmniej za du\u017co si\u0119 nie nabiegamy.  Stara dobra Pollyanna i jej \u201ezabawa w rado\u015b\u0107\u201d czyli szukanie w ka\u017cdej nawet negatywnej sytuacji jakiej\u015b pozytywno\u015bci przychodzi tutaj w sukurs: <br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote style=\"text-align:center\" class=\"wp-block-quote is-style-default is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><em>Strasznie d\u0142uga ta kolejka. \u017be te\u017c Ci wszyscy ludzie nie maj\u0105 kiedy robi\u0107 zakup\u00f3w. Przecie\u017c JA si\u0119 \u015bpiesz\u0119. Ale zaraz, zaraz\u2026 mam w\u0142a\u015bnie doskona\u0142\u0105 okazj\u0119, \u017ceby po\u0107wiczy\u0107 si\u0119 w cierpliwo\u015bci.<br><\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>W praktykowaniu wdzi\u0119czno\u015bci pomocne mo\u017ce by\u0107 zadanie sobie pytania: Dlaczego akurat JA musz\u0119 by\u0107 szcz\u0119\u015bliwy? Mo\u017ce dlatego, \u017ce jestem \u201cdobrym\u201d cz\u0142owiekiem? Skoro tak du\u017co robi\u0119 dla innych no to co\u015b mi si\u0119 od tego \u017cycia nale\u017cy, no chocia\u017c tyle \u017cebym nie cierpia\u0142. Ale czy \u015bwiat tak w\u0142a\u015bnie dzia\u0142a, czy jest sprawiedliwy? Czy ma\u0142e dzieci nie umieraj\u0105 z powodu nieuleczalnych chor\u00f3b? Czy wypadki chodz\u0105 tylko po \u201cz\u0142ych\u201d ludziach? Nie, \u015bwiat nie jest sprawiedliwy. Nic nam nie jest odg\u00f3rnie dane. W momencie u\u015bwiadomienia sobie tej prawdy wdzi\u0119czno\u015b\u0107 pojawi si\u0119 jako co\u015b najbardziej naturalnego.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n<p>Bibliografia:<\/p>\n<p><!-- \/wp:post-content --> <!-- wp:list {\"ordered\":true} --><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Jiddu Krishnamurti, <em>Uwagi o \u017cyciu,<\/em> Wroc\u0142aw 1992<\/li>\n<li>Victor Frankl, <em>Cz\u0142owiek w poszukiwaniu sensu, <\/em>Czarna Owca 2011.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><!-- \/wp:list --><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Musz\u0119 by\u0107 szcz\u0119\u015bliwy To pragnienie w przeciwie\u0144stwie do dw\u00f3ch pozosta\u0142ych (o naturze ego cz 1, o naturze ego cz.2) wydaje 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