Czy faktycznie „piek\u0142o to inni”? Tak, u\u015bci\u015blaj\u0105c piek\u0142o to inni w naszych umys\u0142ach. Gdyby\u015bmy tylko potrafili uwolni\u0107 si\u0119 od my\u015blenia o tym co inni o nas my\u015bl\u0105 jak\u017ce nasze \u017cycie by\u0142oby pi\u0119kne. Pytanie wi\u0119c dlaczego tego nie robimy? Prawd\u0119 m\u00f3wi\u0105c – nie wiem. Z jaki\u015b powod\u00f3w sama funkcjonowa\u0142am tak latami. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Ale jak to zrobi\u0107? Jak uniezale\u017cni\u0107 si\u0119 od my\u015bli aby wypa\u015b\u0107 naj (najlepiej\/najatrakcyjniej\/najbardziej inteligentnie itp.) :<\/p>\n\n\n\n
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Po pierwsze u\u015bwiadomi\u0107 <\/strong>sobie co nami kieruje. Po co robimy to co robimy i czy aby na pewno nie robimy tego, po to \u017ceby „dobrze wypa\u015b\u0107”? Przyk\u0142ad:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Stopie\u0144 doktorski to nie byle co, ale przyda\u0142oby si\u0119 jeszcze zrobi\u0107 profesur\u0119. D\u0142uga droga przede mn\u0105, artyku\u0142y naukowe same si\u0119 nie napisz\u0105. Musz\u0119 rozpisa\u0107 sobie plan, mo\u017ce nawet zatrudni\u0119 coacha. Wtedy na pewno mi si\u0119 uda! Ale zaraz, zaraz…po co mi to w og\u00f3le potrzebne? O kurcz\u0119, nigdy tak NAPRAWD\u0118 nie zastanawia\u0142em si\u0119 po co mi ta ca\u0142a profesorska kariera….<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n A Wam po co profesorskie\/korporacyjne\/sportowe kariery? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Konia z rz\u0119dem temu kto szczerze przyzna, \u017ce karier\u0119 robi dla samego siebie i nawet na bezludnej wyspie nie opu\u015bci\u0142o by go pragnienie bycia dyrektorem \ud83d\ude42 <\/p>\n\n\n\n Oczywi\u015bcie nie mamy kontroli nad naszymi umys\u0142ami wi\u0119c my\u015bli (jak to my\u015bli) b\u0119d\u0105 wraca\u0107. Nie pozostaje wi\u0119c nic innego jak je zaakceptowa\u0107.<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n Przyk\u0142ad: <\/p>\n\n\n\n Niby wiem, \u017ce kariera i ch\u0119\u0107 bycia najlepsz\u0105 w tym co robi\u0119 nijak nie przybli\u017ca mnie to szcz\u0119\u015bcia. Jednak z jakich\u015b powodu my\u015bli na ten temat nadal przychodz\u0105. Wielkie plany zdobycia \u015bwiata \u0142atwo nie odpuszczaj\u0105<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n W tym momencie dobrze jest ze sob\u0105 nie walczy\u0107, przyjrze\u0107 si\u0119 sobie. Zaakceptowa\u0107 to co si\u0119 w nas dzieje. Jednocze\u015bnie maj\u0105c na uwadze, \u017ce to nie \u017cadna prawda objawiona. Jedynie co\u015b co zosta\u0142o nam kiedy\u015b wdrukowane (przez rodzic\u00f3w\/spo\u0142ecze\u0144stwo\/kultur\u0119) i jest bezmy\u015blnie (sic!) odtwarzane. I jeszcze jedno, nie b\u00f3jmy si\u0119,<\/strong> \u017ce jak ju\u017c ostatecznie uda si\u0119 nam uwolni\u0107 od pragnienia bycia naj to zostaniemy z niczym. \u017be zniknie motywacja do jakiegokolwiek dzia\u0142ania. L\u0119ki oczywi\u015bcie mog\u0119 si\u0119 pojawi\u0107. Skoro ca\u0142e \u017cycie funkcjonowali\u015bmy pod dyktando innych to czy w og\u00f3le da si\u0119 inaczej? <\/p>\n\n\n\n Ot\u00f3\u017c uspakajam Da si\u0119. Co wi\u0119cej jest to tak naprawd\u0119 jedyna droga do osi\u0105gni\u0119cia bardziej trwa\u0142ej satysfakcji oraz spokoju Dopiero gdy narzucona osobowo\u015b\u0107 usunie si\u0119 w cie\u0144 na \u015bwiat\u0142o dzienne szanse ma wyj\u015b\u0107 indywidualno\u015b\u0107 czyli \u017ar\u00f3d\u0142o prawdziwej kreacji. <\/p>\n\n\n\n \u017bycie to nie teatr, ja ci na to odpowiadam; *fragment z wiersza Edwarda Stachury „\u017bycie to nie teatr”. Bibliografia:<\/p>\n\n\n\n Czy faktycznie „piek\u0142o to inni”? Tak, u\u015bci\u015blaj\u0105c piek\u0142o to inni w naszych umys\u0142ach. Gdyby\u015bmy tylko potrafili uwolni\u0107 si\u0119 od my\u015blenia o […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":836,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_uag_custom_page_level_css":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"default","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[4,11],"tags":[6,5],"class_list":["post-1","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-swiadomosc","category-blog","tag-akcpetacja","tag-swiadomosc"],"uagb_featured_image_src":{"full":["https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/john-simitopoulos-ES2wTd6wztQ-unsplash.jpg",3846,2564,false],"thumbnail":["https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/john-simitopoulos-ES2wTd6wztQ-unsplash-150x150.jpg",150,150,true],"medium":["https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/john-simitopoulos-ES2wTd6wztQ-unsplash-300x200.jpg",300,200,true],"medium_large":["https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/john-simitopoulos-ES2wTd6wztQ-unsplash-768x512.jpg",768,512,true],"large":["https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/john-simitopoulos-ES2wTd6wztQ-unsplash-1024x683.jpg",1024,683,true],"1536x1536":["https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/john-simitopoulos-ES2wTd6wztQ-unsplash.jpg",1536,1024,false],"2048x2048":["https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/john-simitopoulos-ES2wTd6wztQ-unsplash.jpg",2048,1365,false],"form-edit-image-preview":["https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/john-simitopoulos-ES2wTd6wztQ-unsplash.jpg",174,116,false]},"uagb_author_info":{"display_name":"Witty Life","author_link":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/?author=1"},"uagb_comment_info":4,"uagb_excerpt":"Czy faktycznie „piek\u0142o to inni”? 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Gdyby\u015bmy tylko potrafili uwolni\u0107 si\u0119 od my\u015blenia o […]","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1"}],"version-history":[{"count":78,"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1186,"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1\/revisions\/1186"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/836"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.wittylife.pl\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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\u017bycie to nie tylko kolorowa maskarada;
\u017bycie jest straszniejsze i pi\u0119kniejsze jeszcze jest;
Wszystko przy nim blednie, blednie nawet sama \u015bmier\u0107! <\/em>*<\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
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